Addy Omotajo is the author of Don't Give Them Ammunition and the founder of Broken Scale. A father of two and part of a blended family raising four boys, he has travelled to more than 60 countries and brings a unique perspective on resilience, conflict and human behaviour. His first book draws on lived experience navigating a prolonged high-conflict divorce and presents practical insights for maintaining clarity, emotional discipline and control under pressure. It is the first book in a four-part series exploring the challenges of contentious family breakdown.

A raw, eye-opening series exposing the hidden realities of high-conflict separation: mental health, control, finance, and children. Blending lived experience with structured insight, it helps people under pressure avoid self-sabotage, understand the system, protect what matters and move from reaction toward clarity, strategy and resilience.
